Respectful replies. Think about something you and your youngster disagree on (say, whether his video game time should be limited). Model having a respectful discussion about it. You might say that his brain and body are growing and that he needs to run and play to stay healthy. Then, suggest a respectful response, such as, "I want to be healthy, but I love video games. Have him brainstorm other situations where people have different opinions but still speak to each other with respect.
Everyday acts. When you mow the lawn or clean up after your dog, you can teach your child about respect for neighbors. Explain that keeping your clean and neat makes it nice for everyone. Ask him to think of other respectful things neighbors should do. If you share an apartment laundry room, he might say you respect neighbors' time by removing your clothes when they're done so others get to use the washers and dryers.
Conversations About School
"Let's see what you brought home." Look at completed work to find out what your youngster is learning and how well she's doing. You could comment on her math work or social studies project, for instance. You know a lot about our state's history! Also, respond to notes from her teacher and sent her weekly folder or daily planner if required.
"Show me what you have for homework." It's your child's job to do her homework, but you play a role, too. Make sure she knows what she's supposed to do by having her explain the assignments to you. After she finishes her homework, glance over the work to see that it's complete.
"Describe a book you enjoyed today." This gives you an idea of what your youngster prefers to read. Then, build a daily habit by asking what she'd like to read tonight. Encourage her listening and reading skills by reading aloud to her and letting her read to you.
"Tell me what you learned that you'd like to know more about." Use her interests as jumping-off points for activities to share. If she likes geometry, you might hunt for shapes together. If she's fascinated by how animal adapt to winter, take her to the library to research the subject or to the zoo to see live animals.
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