Respectful replies. Think about something that you and your youngster disagree on (say, whether his video game time should be limited). Model having a respectful discussion about it. You might say his brain and ody are growing and that he needs to run and play to stay healthy. hen suggest a respectful response, such as, " I want to be healthy, but I love video games." Have him brainstorm other situations where people have different opinions but still speak to each other with respect.
Everyday acts. When you mow the lawn or clean up after your dog, you can teach your child about respect for neighbor. Explain that keeping your neighborhood clean and neat makes it nice for everyone. Ask him to think of other respectful things neighbors should do. If you share an apartment laundry room, he might say that you respect neighbors' time by removing your clothes when they are done so others get to use the washers and dryers.♥
An Anti-bullying Attitude
- Watch your words. Let your youngster know you expect her to speak kindly. Before she says something she’s unsure about, she could ask herself if she would want you to hear it. If she overhears another student calling a classmate names or gossiping, she could counter the unkind words with nice ones. (“I hear you’re really good at gymnastics.”)
- Accept everyone. Leaving people out on purpose is a form of bullying. Suggest that your child look for chances to make others feel that they belong. For example, she might ask to join someone who normally sits alone on the bus. Or she could invite a new student to her birthday party. She’ll see how good it feels to make someone’s day—and perhaps she’ll even gain a friend!♥
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