- Instead of “You’re so smart,” try “You’re good at thinking things through.” Why? You’ll avoid labeling your child.
- Instead of “You’re so helpful,” try “Thanks for doing your chores before I asked.” Why? Your words will motivate your child to repeat her behavior.
- Instead of “Awesome grade,” try “I’m proud of you for studying hard.” Why? This puts the focus on effort rather than grades only.
- Instead of “What a pretty painting,” try “I’m impressed by all the details.” Why? Your youngster will know exactly what made it appealing to you.♥
Homework Success
Start smart
Before your child digs into the day’s homework, have her rank her assignments from easiest to hardest. She may want to do the hardest work
first while her mind is fresh. Or perhaps she’d prefer to get an easier assignment out of the way first to give her a sense of accomplishment.
Read the instructions
Paying careful attention to directions can help your youngster complete assignments correctly. For instance, the instructions might say to write explanations or draw pictures to show her thinking in solving math problems. Also, tell her that if she doesn’t understand the directions, it’s okay to ask for help. Offer to read them with her, or she could call a friend.
Take breaks
Short breaks will help your child stay focused. Between assignments or subjects, let her set a timer for 10 minutes. She can stretch, snuggle with the cat, or dance to music until the timer goes off, then get back to work.
Review work
As your youngster finishes each assignment, have her check it over before
putting it away or sending it electronically. Is her name on her paper? Did she skip any parts? Do all answers make sense? Once she’s satisfied, she should put her paper in her backpack or hit “send.” ♥
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